It is not good to refuse a gift
Homer
Accept it
The challenges
The tragedies
The joys
The doldrums 
and the high spirits
Accept them all with an open hand
 Because each is a gift
that makes your journey what it is
and makes you who you are
and you are 
-  a very special gift-
and that's poetiquejustis
 In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well
Romans 12:6 







