The Louder you speak....

I don't like yelling and fighting

and I cannot quarrel.

Grace Kelly

No one likes being yelled at
in fact...
The louder you speak

the less people here.

                      Nothing lacks grace more than yelling
         In fact, nothing screams  lack of poise and intelligence

                 except maybe when the language also devolves
                                   

                                          grace under pressure

                                    lack of grace under pressure

You choose

and that's poetiquejustis

Like a city whose walls are broken through 

is a person who lacks self-control.

Proverbs 25:28